ok so im watching criminal minds and theyre interviewing the killers girlfriend and they’re like “don’t you think its weird that your boyfriend has fantasies about strangling and raping women?” and the gf is like “its perfectly normal to experiment with sex.” and they’re like “yeah but isnt that…
“interviewing //the killers// girlfriend and they’re like “don’t you think its weird that your boyfriend has fantasies about strangling and raping women?””
Lets repeat that.
The killer, the person who murders women-presumably after raping them and by strangling them-has expressed and enacted fantasies of said rape and strangulation, has moved those practice-runs into actual act, and you’re going to cry about kink shaming?
“Seth Mazzaglia (left and right) of Dover, who is a struggling actor has been arrested and charged with the murder of missing student Lizzi Marriott. The user by the name DarKaiser wrote in his profile that he is ‘a master seeking a slave.’ On another bondage website described as a Facebook ‘run by kinksters,’ a 29-year-old DarKaiser from New Hampshire wrote that he was looking for ‘a lifetime relationship, a relationship; a play partner’ princess by day, slut by night’ and a sub.’”
So he killed her and dropped her body somewhere, probably the ocean.
Or there’s this one:
“A ‘person of interest’ in the murder of marine’s wife Brittany Kilgore left a series of bizarre postings on a depraved BDSM sex website, it emerged today.
Louis Perez, 47, who is also a Marine, used to live in Fallbrook, California, with his girlfriend and made posts on the website BMEHookups.com about wanting to find another ‘sex slave’ to join his home. Jessica Lynn Lopez, who has been charged with murder in Mrs Killgore’s death, currently lives with Perez’s girlfriend.”
Or this one:
“Assistant prosecutor Lisa Lindsay says Bob Bashara — who stands accused of hiring a hit man to kill his wife — asked seven friends and associates if they knew of anyone who he could hire to harm Jane Bashara, including friends who shared in Bashara’s BDSM lifestyle.”
“Robinson had discovered the Internet and roamed various social networking sites using the name “Slavemaster”, looking for women who enjoyed playing the submissive partner role during sex. The first victim he met online was Sheila Faith, 45, whose 15-year-old daughter Debbie was wheelchair-bound due to spina bifida. He portrayed himself as a wealthy man who would support them, pay for Debbie’s therapy, and give Sheila a job. In 1994 the mother and daughter moved from Fullerton, California to Kansas City and immediately disappeared.
Gradually, Robinson became well known in the increasingly popular BDSM online chat rooms. In 1999 he offered a job and a bondage relationship to Izabela Lewicka, a 21-year-old Polish immigrant living in Indiana. When she moved to Kansas City, she did sign a 115-item slave contract that gave Robinson almost total control over every aspect of her life, including her bank accounts. Sometime during the summer of 1999 she disappeared.
About the time of Lewicka’s disappearance Robinson convinced a lonely licensed practical nurse by day and submissive slave by night named Suzette Trouten to move from Michigan to Kansas so they could travel the world together. She too disappeared.”
You wanna swing that “bdsm doesn’t hurt anyone” by me again? And remember, you’re talking to an ex-Dom, so don’t try to waste my time with bullshit.